In my world January 6 is the anniversary of my divorce. And this year marks the first anniversary. I was wondering if I should celebrate the way I did last year (with eight girlfriends at an Irish pub) drinking, eating, laughing and a few interesting gifts.
The definition of an epiphany is: a sudden manifestation or perception or meaning of something, an intuitive grasp of reality through something (as an event) usually simple and striking; an illuminating discovery, realization or disclosure, a revealing scene or moment.
My divorce was all of the above. This year has been one of reflection and change. But most importantly, I have realized something: I am happy. I am an A+ and was treated like a C- for most of my marriage, which I accepted. But no more. To stay in a relationship that is just okay is not healthy. It's a disservice to oneself.
My epiphany is that I am worth so much more than I was led to believe. And so are we all!
Happy little Christmas everyone!
One corection... you are an A++.
ReplyDeleteI have finally caught up with you blogs. what you say about a thought less relationship is so try. We are not fair to oursleves when we do that. You said it beautifully!!!
ReplyDeleteis so true!!! not try!!!
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